Understanding 70 Sexual Terms Every Escort Should Know

In the world of escorting, navigating through explicit conversations can sometimes be challenging, especially when encountering unfamiliar sexual terms. Our comprehensive guide covers 70 essential sexual terms that every escort should be acquainted with, ensuring a confident and informed approach to conversations.

Why 70 Sexual Terms?

You might wonder why knowing 70 sexual terms is necessary. Imagine being in a social gathering, and the conversation takes a provocative turn. Suddenly, terms like “breath play” and “creampie” are thrown around, leaving you feeling awkward and out of the loop. Understanding these terms is about empowerment, ensuring you’re well-versed in the diverse language of sexuality.

A Comprehensive Glossary

Let’s delve into the glossary of 70 sexual terms, each verified by sexologists, providing detailed explanations and translations for clarity. This guide serves as a quick reference, allowing you to discreetly browse through the terms on your phone, saving you from potential embarrassment.

1. Sex – Sex is any type of sexual activity that usually involves penetration of the anus (aka anus).
2. Anorgasmia is when you find it difficult to reach orgasm despite receiving the necessary stimulation.
3. Asexual is a sexual orientation described by the Asexual Visibility and Education Network as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction.” There are many stereotypes about asexual people, including that they can’t have romantic relationships, although this is not true.
4. Autosexual is attraction to oneself or arousal by oneself. Autosexuality is classified as a sexual orientation and exists on the spectrum.
5. Bareback is when you have sex without using protective equipment such as condoms.
6. BDSM is a form of sexual play based on power and dynamics that advocates slavery and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.
7. Bisexual is a sexual orientation in which you experience romantic and/or sexual attraction to both your own gender and members of the other sex.
8. BlowJob is, also called “downhill,” where you put your lover’s penis or strap-on in your mouth so you can suck and lick him for his pleasure. If you go down on someone with your vagina, it’s called.
9. Blue Balls is a non-dangerous, non-medical term. Blue balls are a term that refers to pain in a person’s scrotum due to prolonged sexual arousal without orgasm.
10. Breath Play is a concerted activity related to BDSM, breath play involves restricting oxygen to increase sexual pleasure or stimulate orgasm. This is a risky behavior that requires extreme caution.
11. A bulge is the outline of a person’s penis that can be seen through underwear, swimsuit, pants, etc.
12. The Butt Plug is a sex toy that is inserted into the anus (hence the term “plug”) for the user’s pleasure. They come in a variety of shapes, usually resembling a teardrop, penile glans, triangle, etc. The material also ranges from plastic to rubber and glass, and sometimes they even vibrate.
13. Cowgirl is when a person is positioned so that they sit on top of their partner, legs on either side of their hips, moving up and down, side to side, around, etc., on their partner’s penis, sex toy, hand, etc.
14. Cosplay – Cosplay is a shortened version of the word “costume game” where people dress up as a character or pop culture icon and then embody that look for a period of time. It doesn’t have to be sexual, but it’s often talked about in a sexual context.
15. Creampie is not a dessert. is when sperm leaks out of the vagina after ejaculation during sex.
16. Clitoris is a small, sensitive sexual organ (part of the vulva) with thousands of nerve endings. Many people with the vulva need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
17. Circumcision is a procedure in which the foreskin of the penis is removed to expose the glans penis more prominently. It is a purely aesthetic, personal, or cultural decision, usually made at birth. The procedure can also be done in adulthood for medical reasons.
18. Cunnilingus is a word that means oral sex with a person with a vulva. You use your lips and tongue to stimulate your vulva’s genitals, often their labia majora (outer lips), labia minora (inner lips), and clitoris.
19. Deepthroat – This happens during a when a man pushes their partner’s penis all the way into the back of their throat (or as deep as they can). Sometimes this technique can lead to vomiting.
20. Demisexual is sexual orientation, demisexual is when you don’t feel sexually attracted to someone unless you feel an emotional connection with them first.
21. Diaphragm, located at the edge of the cervix, is a contraceptive device that blocks the fertilization of the egg by sperm.
22. Dirty Talk is when you talk about sex, during intercourse with or before your partner, etc. You can have dirty talk before, during, and when you’re trying to.
23. Doggy Style is when one person enters another from behind, and the receiver stands on all fours. (The pose somewhat mimics how dogs and other animals have sex, hence the name.)
24. Edging is a technique where you get as close to orgasm as possible or delay it for as long as possible to eventually achieve a stronger, more powerful orgasm after you let it go.
25. Face-Sitting is when you get oral sex by sitting over your partner’s mouth with your genitals on top of it.
26. Facial is when someone with a penis evacuates onto their partner’s face.
27. Fingering is when a person uses their finger to stimulate the vagina, clitoris, vulva, etc. This can be done until the person with the vulva reaches orgasm or as a method of foreplay.
28. Foot Fetish is a sexual interest in which a person is particularly attracted to legs. This could mean that they like the look of their feet or they like physical stimulation such as touching, licking, kissing, sucking, etc., on their feet.
29. Footjob is when a man uses his legs to sexually stimulate a person’s genitals, usually using lubricant and moving his legs up and down the penis. Think of it as handmade (more on that later), but with legs.
30. Foreplay – which often, but not always, precedes sex. This can include things like kissing or cuddling, as well as petting or dirty talk. Although this term is applicable in other areas as well.
31. Golden Shower – This usually refers to when a person pees on or in front of their partner, as well as in a sexual context.
32. Gagging is a form of sexual perversion or BDSM play with dominance and submissiveness, it is a consensual act where a person is strangled with a hand or object during sex.
33. HandJob – Manual penis stimulation is when you use your hand to stimulate the penis owner, often until they reach orgasm.
34. Hickey – A suck is a discoloration or bruise that occurs when you or your partner sucks on a fleshy piece of skin (stereotypically on the neck), causing the blood vessels to burst. They are not harmful or dangerous, although they can be painful to the touch.
35. Labia – Labia located on both sides of the vaginal opening. The labia are called “vaginal lips”. They protect the genitals and can also burst into blood when aroused, making them sensitive during sex.
36. Lube – A lubricant or “lubricant” is a liquid (usually water-based or silicone-based) used during sex that can be applied to a person’s genitals to reduce friction and thus increase overall pleasure.
37. Masturbation is when a person self-stimulates their genitals, sometimes ending in orgasm.
38. Mile-High Club – A mile-high club is when a person joins a fictional “mile high club” when having sex on an airplane.
39. MILF this acronym stands for Mommy I’d Like to Fuck.
40. Missionary is a sexual position in which one person lies on their back and the other lies on top of them.
41. Motorboating is when you place your face between two breasts and blow with your mouth or lips, making the sound of, you guessed it, a motorboat.
42. Nipple Clamps are sex toys that attach neatly to the nipples for both nipple visualization and nipple stimulation. (Each of the nipples has more than 2,000 nerve endings, making them a powerful tool for achieving orgasm.)
43. Orbiting is a word that describes a situation when a person stops communicating with you directly, but at the same time keeps you in the orbit — likes and even comments on your posts on social networks.
44. Orgy – Orgy is group sex with multiple partners. For example, it could be a party where many people participate in various sexual acts together.
45. Pansexual is a sexual orientation in which you experience emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to people of any gender identity. Pansexual comes from the Greek word “pan,” which means “all.”
46. Pearl Necklace is when a man orgasms and ejaculates into his partner’s chest area, which supposedly resembles a pearl necklace.
47. Pegging is when a man woman engages in penetrative sex with a partner using a strap-on for a. (This action is usually associated with heterosexual relationships.)
48. Period Sex is when you have sex during your period or with a menstruating woman.
49. Pregnant Sex is when you have sex during pregnancy or with a pregnant woman.
50. Quickie is quick or fast-paced sex, usually without foreplay or aftercare.
51. Queefing – which can come from the vagina during sex. (And yes, it may sound like a fart.) This is when air suddenly comes out of the vagina and the sound is loud enough to be noticed. There’s nothing wrong with quifing, and it’s odorless.
52. Rainbow Kiss – This act usually involves a man and a woman, but there are variations. A rainbow kiss is when a woman has oral sex during her period and a man has regular oral sex. Once both parties reach orgasm, a “rainbow kiss” is when you take menstrual blood and from your mouth and mix them together during a kiss.
53. Reverse-Cowgirl is like regular cowgirl sex, except the person on top is looking in the opposite direction. And that means his partner will be able to see his ass.
54. Rimming “Rimjob” is a type of oral sex in which one partner touches the other’s anus area with their mouth.
55. Rough Sex – People’s personal definitions of “rough” can vary. This term usually includes sex, which includes certain forms of BDSM play or aggressive play and dirty talk.
56. Rusty Trombone is when someone performs both rimming and penis stimulation with their hands at the same time.
57. Safe Word is a predetermined word that partners use during sex to signal the end of an action, no questions asked. In short, it communicates to your consenting partner that you have reached your personal limits and that you would like to stop at that moment.
58. Sex-repulsed – Sex aversion refers to someone who finds sex disgusting. Like any other disgust, someone who has an aversion to sex will not want to watch sex, have sex, talk or think about sex.
59. Shrimping means sucking your partner’s toes.
60. Situationship is an umbrella term for relationships that don’t reach the stage of “formal dating” and often fall into the realms between romance, friendship, falling in love, or hanging out with feelings involved.
61. Sixty-Nine is a sex position in which two people perform oral sex at the same time.
62. Spooning is a back-to-back lying position where one person hugs another from behind, holding them close to their chest. Partners can also engage in penetrative sex in the spoon position.
63. Squirting is when fluid comes out of a woman’s vagina. (FYI: Sometimes it’s diluted urine.) This act is usually associated with orgasm.
64. The Strap-On is an ex-toy that includes a tourniquet: one that you wear around your hips, and a or vibrator that attaches to the tourniquet. A strap-on is usually worn by those who do not have a penis as a way to have penetrative sex.
65. Submarining is when an ex-partner reappears in your life and tries to act as if nothing has happened since your last interaction.
66. Teabagging is when someone with a penis places their scrotum (balls) in another person’s face or mouth while standing, hovering, or kneeling over them.
67. Temperature Play is a coordinated form of BDSM play that uses heat or cold to heighten the senses. For example, applying hot wax or cold ice to a person’s body for arousal.
68. A Thigh Job is when someone uses their hips to stimulate a person’s genitals. Sexual intercourse is similar to arm or leg work, but you use your hips instead.
69. Threesome is when three people have sex, often including penetration, together at the same time.
70. A vibrator is a sex toy that vibrates and can help bring a person to orgasm. You can use it externally or insert it into the anus or vagina, depending on the toy’s safety instructions

In conclusion, this comprehensive guide equips escorts with the knowledge needed to navigate and engage in informed conversations about sexuality, ensuring professionalism and confidence in their profession

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